patriarchy
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CW: discussion of possible sexual assault In the midst of the Cornell 7 case coming to light – thanks to the bravery of Jane Doe, who is suing the university and the rapists – I have seen a lot of talk on social media about the fact that not a single man in the group…
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I’m so fucking angry. It has taken some time for me to get to this place and now that it’s happening, I don’t like it. It feels like it’s not going to stop. It feels like a wave of fury that is going to knock me off my feet and roil me around in its…
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CW: sexual violence There’s a clip going around on social media of two male characters talking about sex. It’s from the hit series Off Campus, and features one varsity hockey player asking another how to make sure a woman comes during a sexual encounter. “There’s a tool at your disposal,” the more experienced character says.…
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Anonymous recently asked on a messaging site to meet me in real life. The individual offered me $450 and when I said they had misread the situation, offered more. I was clear about saying no. In the end, I decided to delete the account and stop engaging. I am privileged in that I am a…
