Thirst traps

  • How Old is Too Old?

    The other day, I learned that a VA was having a milestone birthday that’s way in my past, and I messaged a smutty colleague: “Tell me I’m not too old to be doing this.”  My bio says that I am GenX, and that identifies me as older than most of the female VAs I’m aware…

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  • Pieces of Me

    You’ve only seen pieces of me, of course. It’s sort of a convention for women in my smutty community to post pics of themselves on Wednesdays. It started out as a body positivity exercise, spearheaded by two amazing women who decided to encourage us to show ourselves to each other. What resulted was a weekly…

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